Cake, cake, cake, cake…Is Love like a DIET? Are you holding yourself back from something you really want, dreaming of that BIG piece of moist chocolate cake that melts in your mouth with every single bite? If this is you, and you force yourself to DIET per say, then maybe it’s time you make a lifestyle change. Something that continues to amaze me is the fact that we tend to live our lives in such a controlled environment. Claiming we do what we want, when we want, until the right back is turned and then you actually have the freedom to do as you please? This is my plea, BE you, LOVE you. No person you meet is going to help you get where you need to be without you doing it for yourself. If you have to go in a backdoor to do something or say something, then maybe you should request an epiphany from your EGO, that Hmmm…Maybe I shouldn’t be doing this. What brings this you say? Well…I would have to say the “Back Door people”. The one’s who want to live the life you live, yet can’t because they have an obligation to act a certain way. So instead of being them, living their life as they please, they understand the insecurity of their situations and choose the “Back Door approach”. They don’t have the strength, or don’t want to drama of being who they really are or going for what they really want. My friends this is what we call living under the control of someone else. You can spit it as you want it, but ultimately you are being controlled. Now in saying this, I have to say there is a certain respect you give someone else, if you are “with” them. So if this is the case, then follow Bambi’s mother’s advice, and if you don’t have something to say that you’re not willing to share, then ask yourself, should I really be talking to this person or calling this woman “Beautiful, Baby, Love”? Think to yourself…”What would my wife or girlfriend think” Or perhaps when you are offering an extracurricular affair, ponder on the fact of WHY DOES IT TAKE A SINGLE WOMAN TO KEEP YOU IN YOUR PLACE? Have we become a culture that is never satisfied with what is in front of us that we must continue to turn the pages? Constantly wanting that Fat piece of Chocolate Cake, pursuing it, drooling over it… I am not sure how many of you have online dated, but let me be the first to tell you it is like flipping thru a magazine. Many of us who do not have the time to go out and meet “New” people elect online dating because we are able to sift thru the Mr.Maybe’s and the Mr.Quit Flooding my inbox you psycho. Online dating has posed one problem with me… “Back Door people”. They aren’t looking for a commitment, they really aren’t looking for a relationship, but they are looking for instant gratification, they are looking for a new piece of Cake. And if you, my single friends, are this piece of cake, then 9 out 10 times, you were simply a taste test. You wasted your time, you wasted your emotions, and you wasted the chance to really spend quality time with someone truly interested. Don’t let “Back Door people” shop around. Put your “For Sale Sign UP!” This piece of Hot Chocolate CAKE is worth something, and if you are not interested in buying I suggest you switch up your FLAVOR!
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