Loving someone with a cold heart is hard to do. When you are with them, you get slight
glimpses of their soul, and within days you can feel the tension that
encompasses their aura. You put time and
effort into chiseling the beautifully crafted ice sculpture, however, it seems
your attempts to put a dent in their icy surroundings goes unnoticed and are
even more are unwelcomed.
Cold hearts
are nature’s way of protecting the fire that burns within. Its like a volcano that steams below the
earth, peaked and protected by a thick core mountain top draped in soft
snow. The layers of protection to keep
the fire burning within are endless, and the last thing anyone wants to do is
unleash that passion without being prepared to be engulfed with hot lava.
Cold hearts are afraid.
This is because they were once warm, even hot. Believing and trusting the intentions of
everyone they ever met. They believe do
unto others as you want done to you. It
brings them joy to make another person smile.
It’s almost as if they walk a romantic life everyday, just without the
romance. Whether, friend, lover, or foe,
a cold heart will always consider your feelings and attempt to accept your pain,
because only a cold heart knows what it feels like to be lied to, hurt, and
broken.
Cold hearts are beautiful and possibly one of the most
amazing things another can experience.
They distant themselves from painful feelings because they don’t want to
feel. Not in an “I don’t want to feel at
all sense”, but more of an “I am currently at my pain threshold, and I need you
to understand that”. Hurt hurts, and
doing it alone is even harder. If you
are not alone at this moment, you will never understand that. Don’t question a cold heart. Ultimately, a cold heart was once just
something that loved to hard.
So when you meet this cold heart, love them harder. Fan the
flames and show them that love and honesty are achievable. The heart is like snow, beautiful but cold,
and sometimes, some people are worth melting for. Love it anyway!
